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Dream Babies Have you ever wondered if your life was planned before you were born? Could it be that your soul comes into the world pre destined? Many mothers (myself included) have entertained this idea as one that could be true. I’ve heard many stories of unborn children “communicating” with their parents before birth. There are so many things that are unexplained pointing toward the possibility of the soul being planned, so to speak. Yet, some of these very same unexplained phenomena would lead to the idea of wishful thinking on behalf of the parent who has had the pre birth communication. There are many mothers who dream of their children prior to giving birth. I tend to be a logical person and probably wouldn’t give this much thought, but having had five children and dreaming of the last two myself, with the circumstances, and everything involved, I have come to think that the idea of pre destined souls may not be so far fetched. In fact, of the stories I have heard and/or read about from other mothers with this experience, very few of them seem to have little merit. It’s as if there is a reason they should connect to this child, not that we don’t “connect” with all of our children, we love them all dearly, but there seems to be something different with what I call “soul babies”. Have you ever met a small child, be it your own or someone else’s that just seems “wise” for their age? A child that has something that you can’t quite put your finger on, but there just seems to be something different? I believe it’s something that carries on into adulthood, as there are people I’ve encountered that just put off that sense of “well being”, or comfort. These are the people that you find yourself immediately comfortable with, but without a specific reason. It’s nothing they say or do that causes the feeling, their mere presence just puts you at ease. Maybe these are the souls we were closest to before having been born ourselves….it could be that these particular souls are the key players in our own life plans, hence there’s something our soul remembers as they’re about to make their entrance back into our lives, be it through birth or crossing paths. I would also venture to say that after children with whom a parent has had a pre-birth communication with are born, the parent probably experiences a different kind of feeling about this child, not any more love than he or she has for their other children mind you, just a different connection. I was intrigued to find that most stories of pre birth communication were very similar to my own. That being described as a dream that was Vivid like no other, and with a feeling that you couldn’t shake if you tried. (Not that you’d want to) I hadn’t heard of this prior to it happening to me, and found it very interesting that it has happened and continues to happen so often to so many. It leaves me to wonder if these are older souls that come in already knowing what their purpose is, or maybe just to remind those they are born to of their own purpose. Perhaps these are the souls that come as your back up plan, so to speak, should you go off course. With that said, as I mentioned early on, as intriguing as some of these stories are, they lead to more questions. Questions such as, if souls are to be born to us, and the plan is already in motion, wouldn’t everyone born to us, as well as everyone we come into contact with be equally important? Why then would we not have “communications” with all of our children before birth? It seems odd that one or two of your children would be more important in the grand scheme of things than the others. What should happen if one or more of the souls who are a part of your life plan should go off course themselves? Would this make the whole plan null and void? What exactly is the purpose of pre birth communication? If we are all pre destined, it would also imply that everyone around you is pre destined to be right where they are. Why then, are there those around us at times that we would rather not have around? Did they stray off of their own path and interrupt ours? It very well could be that some are just born with a sense of confidence and/or personality that make others feel drawn to them, hence we are closer and more comfortable with some than others, or it could be that there is no logical explanation at all. Perhaps the dreams of unborn children, the instant bond you form with someone you’ve just met, and the unexplained feelings you get when you are around certain people are just that. Nothing more than what they are. In any case it’s something to think about the next time it happens to you, is there a logical explanation, or - just for that moment - has your soul remembered? | Q: My boyfriend Mike and I have been together for four years and planned on marrying in September of 2003. We had what I thought was a perfect relationship and as far as I could tell he felt the same way. Two months before we were to be married, he went back to Greece to make the final wedding arrangements with his parents. (I have met them several times and got along very well with both of them.) Mike was supposed to ring me that weekend, but he never did. As a matter of fact, he didn’t ring me at all for the next two weeks. I tried calling him at his parent’s home during this time but he was never there. When I asked his parents if something was wrong, they would just tell me that he was out and they hadn’t seen him all day, or that they would have him call me back. After two weeks of my calling, Mike finally answered the phone himself. It was like talking to a different person. He was very short with me, and when I tried to talk to him about why he hadn’t called and what was going on, he was evasive. He told me that he was sorry, but he felt we needed “a break” from each other for a while. I asked him if there was someone else and he insisted there wasn’t. I have since asked mutual friends that we have in Greece as well as his Mother and they also tell me that he is seeing no one. What’s confusing to me is the fact that before he left he was telling me how much he loved me and that he couldn’t wait to be married. I don’t understand what could have happened between here and Greece that made him change his mind about everything. I still think there is something he isn’t telling me. He never came back from Greece, and when I talk to him on the phone he is very polite, and apologetic, but doesn’t want to talk about “us”. He says he still needs time to think. Now I am wondering if I should wait for him and hope he becomes the person he was before he left for Greece, or if I should try to stop dwelling on it and begin to move on with my own life.
Lisa
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A: Lisa, I can’t help but think that you’re probably right when you say there’s something he’s not telling you. I have a hard time believing that he could change his mind so quickly, which would make me think that he already knew he wanted to take “a break” before he even left for Greece.
Tricia
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